Keeping Gambling Under Control
The Golden Rules
1. Only gamble what you can afford to lose This isn't just advice - it's the foundation of safe gambling. If losing the money would affect your rent, bills, food, or family, don't gamble it.
2. Never chase losses The urge to "win it back" is powerful but dangerous. Losses are part of gambling. Accept them and move on.
3. Set limits before you play Decide how much time and money you'll spend BEFORE starting. Write it down. Stick to it absolutely.
4. Don't gamble when emotional Feeling stressed, angry, depressed, or even extremely happy? Not the time to gamble. Emotions impair judgment.
5. Take regular breaks Step away frequently. Get a drink, stretch, do something else. Extended sessions lead to poor decisions.
Healthy Gambling Habits
Before each session:
- Check your budget
- Set a time limit
- Decide your loss limit
- Ask: "Why am I playing today?"
During play:
- Take a break every 30-60 minutes
- Keep track of time and money spent
- Stop when you reach your limit
- Never borrow money to continue
After playing:
- Reflect on the session
- Did you stick to limits?
- How do you feel?
- Any concerning patterns?
Recognising Warning Signs
Early Warning Signs
These suggest gambling may be becoming problematic:
- Spending more time gambling than intended
- Thinking about gambling when doing other things
- Betting more than planned to get the same excitement
- Feeling restless when trying to stop
- Using gambling to escape problems or relieve negative feelings
- Returning to "get even" after losing
Serious Warning Signs
These indicate gambling has become a problem:
- Lying to family about gambling
- Borrowing money or selling things to gamble
- Neglecting work, family, or responsibilities
- Feeling anxious, guilty, or depressed about gambling
- Arguments with loved ones about gambling
- Gambling with money meant for bills or essentials
The Self-Assessment
Answer honestly:
- Have you ever felt you needed to gamble more to get the same excitement?
- Have you ever lied to people important to you about gambling?
- Have you ever felt restless or irritable when trying to stop?
- Have you ever gambled to escape problems or relieve bad feelings?
- Have you ever returned another day to try to win back losses?
- Have you ever risked or lost relationships because of gambling?
If you answered "yes" to any of these, consider seeking support.
Using Casino Safety Tools
Deposit Limits
Set maximum amounts you can deposit:
- Daily limits
- Weekly limits
- Monthly limits
Once set, increases typically have a 24-72 hour cooling-off period.
Recommendation: Set these lower than you think you need.
Loss Limits
Cap how much you can lose:
- Automatically prevents further play when reached
- Resets at your chosen interval
- Provides a safety net
Session Time Limits
Control how long you play:
- Set maximum session length
- Receive reminders at intervals
- Auto-logout when time expires
Recommendation: Start with 30-minute reminders.
Reality Checks
Pop-up reminders showing:
- How long you've been playing
- How much you've won or lost
- Option to continue or stop
These break the trance of continuous play.
Self-Exclusion
Temporarily or permanently block yourself:
- Cooling off: 24 hours to 6 weeks
- Self-exclusion: 6 months to 5 years
- GAMSTOP: UK-wide exclusion from all licensed sites
Self-exclusion is reversible (after minimum period), but the process is deliberately slow.
Using Tools Isn't Weakness
Using these tools shows:
- Self-awareness
- Maturity
- Responsibility
- Good decision-making
The smartest gamblers use every tool available.
Getting Help
Immediate Support
GambleAware
- Website: www.begambleaware.org
- Helpline: 0808 8020 133 (free, 24/7)
- Live chat available
GamCare
- Website: www.gamcare.org.uk
- Helpline: 0808 8020 133
- One-to-one counselling
- Online group support
Gambling Therapy
- Website: www.gamblingtherapy.org
- Free online support
- Anonymous chat rooms
- Email counselling
GAMSTOP
Self-exclude from all UK-licensed gambling sites:
- Website: www.gamstop.co.uk
- Choose 6 months, 1 year, or 5 years
- Covers all UK Gambling Commission licensed operators
- Free to use
Financial Support
If gambling has affected your finances:
StepChange
- Debt advice charity
- Website: www.stepchange.org
- Free, confidential debt advice
National Debtline
- Free debt advice
- Phone: 0808 808 4000
Mental Health Support
Gambling problems often co-occur with:
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Other addictions
Mind
- Mental health charity
- Website: www.mind.org.uk
- Phone: 0300 123 3393
Samaritans
- 24/7 listening service
- Phone: 116 123 (free)
- For anyone struggling
Supporting Someone Else
How to Help
Do:
- Express concern calmly
- Listen without judgment
- Offer to help find support
- Learn about gambling problems
- Take care of yourself too
- Set boundaries if needed
Don't:
- Lecture or criticize
- Take over their finances (unless they ask)
- Pay off their debts (enables continued gambling)
- Make excuses for them
- Ignore your own wellbeing
Starting the Conversation
- "I've noticed you've been gambling more. How are you feeling about it?"
- "I'm worried about you. Can we talk about what's going on?"
- "I'm here for you. Would it help to talk to someone together?"
Support for Families
GamAnon
- Support for families of gamblers
- Website: www.gamanon.org.uk
- Meetings and resources
GamCare
- Also supports affected family members
- Website: www.gamcare.org.uk
Protecting Finances
If a family member has a gambling problem:
- Secure your own finances
- Don't give them access to joint accounts
- Consider separate banking
- Seek legal advice if necessary
Final Thoughts
Gambling can be enjoyable entertainment when kept under control. The key is honesty with yourself about your behaviour and using available tools and support when needed.
Remember:
- There's no shame in seeking help
- Problems are easier to address early
- Support is available 24/7
- You're not alone
If anything in this guide resonated with you, please reach out. The organisations listed above are staffed by caring professionals who want to help.
Helpline: 0808 8020 133 (free, 24/7)
Key Takeaways
- 1 Gambling should always be entertainment, never a way to make money
- 2 Set strict time and money limits before every session
- 3 Recognise warning signs early - they're easier to address
- 4 Help is available 24/7 if you need it
- 5 Taking breaks and using casino tools is smart, not weak

